I've been reading all sorts of books lately on how to get rich,why Donald Trump wants me to be rich, it's my fault that I'm broke and apparently I want to be broke. Who knew? Basically I already know whats in those books, I just haven't wanted to admit it to myself, yet. So now that I'm serious about starting to get ahead rather than live paycheck to paycheck I find myself having to change the way I look at things. Here's the biggest one for me. Old me: I want to be home with my family not out working. We have enough now and i want to be part of my kid's lives, not some guy that pops in and out between jobs. New me (relax everyone, It's still me. I'm just thinking differently now and use the term metaphorically): If I really care about my family I will work a little harder to earn enough money so they can go to college etc. etc. This sucks because the old me reasoning was a really good excuse to continue to be lazy and procrastinate, but I think the change is worth it. So now Wifey-poo and I are starting to get a plan of attack in place and start knocking the debt down. It's difficult to change so drastically and begin new endeavors, but time is fleeting so its time to get off my fat ass and get my hands dirty.
Damn it! I just broke a nail. It's all harder that I thought. Forget it Scrubs in on anyway and that show ain't gonna watch itself.
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Oh.. and next time I go to quilting class, remind me and I'll tell you where the nail repair kit is......
Love, MacKenzie
Ya'll act like me and my hubby
Is it a Maine thing?
**hugs and love**
~Cerelia
Welcome to the 'stream!
I guess you need to weigh the odds. You can work two jobs and provide for a life you will never have time for in your near future. You can live pay check to pay check and enjoy the few years that your kids will be young. I know how how hard it can be to raise a family, I did it on my own. When I had a chance to further my and make more money. I asked my boys what was important; more money and less time or more time with less money? They chose me over money and material possessions. It is still check-to-check but I would not give up a day, good or bad.
I am not giving advise, I was only asking a few questions. Okay, now you saw my serious side.
Good Luck with your decision~ Cuddle
It may be a Maine thing, but I like it regardless. Thanks for reading and I hope you come back often.
Believe me, I've thought about all that. It comes down to the sad fact that all things being equal, we'll be about 4-5k short this year, so I gots ta do somepin. It's cool though I have some irons in the proverbial fire. The family always comes first. keep on keepn' on.
**hugs and love**
~Cerelia